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Chennai, TN, India
I am a Software Engineer since Aug 2004. Master of own space, Fun loving but within a limit, hate pulling other's leg, twinkling brain thinking of surroundings, blend of culture and sanskar, priest of music, always ready with a helping hand and a smiling face, Mr Attitude for people who deserve it, but a true and great friend for my friends ...

Monday, May 28, 2012

SJ4. Naav hai zindagi ...


Ek masoom si naav hai zindagi zindagi
Toofaan mein doob rahi zindagi zindagi
Maajhi ki aankhon mein jhaank kar
Kinara dhoondh rahi hai zindagi zindagi
Zindagi Zindagi

Baadalon ka shor bahut
Tez hawa chal rahi hai
Tez hawa chal rahi hai
Ek lau maajhi ke haath mein
Ek lau maajhi ke haath mein
Aankh moond hai jaagi hui
Aankh moond hai jaagi hui

Ek masoom si naav hai zindagi zindagi
Toofaan mein doob rahi zindagi zindagi

Ho maajhi tum sath nibhana
Ek ek kadam badhana
Ek ek kadam badhana
Main chhod doon aas agar
O Maajhi
Main chhod doon aas agar
Tum naa chhodna saath kabhi
Tum naa chhodna saath kabhi

Ek masoom si naav hai zindagi zindagi
Toofaan mein doob rahi zindagi zindagi
Maajhi ki aankhon mein jhaank kar
Kinara dhoondh rahi hai zindagi zindagi
Zindagi Zindagi.

Monday, May 14, 2012

SJ2: Dheere Dheere, Haule Haule

Bikhre toote tukde,
saare jud rahe hai dheere dheere, haule haule,

betuke se sur woh,
saare mil rahe hai dheere dheere, haule haule,

aayiney ka dhundhla chehara,
khil raha hai dheere dheere, haule haule,

nanhi si ek jaan ne apna bachpan khoya,
ho phir ki mayli chadar odhke soya,
bebas aklea bezubaan, chupchap roya,

barso se yeh behte,
aasun tham rahe hai dheere dheere, haule haule,

khul rahi aankhein jo,
ab tak nam rahi hai dheere dheere, haule haule,

aayiney ka dhundhla chehara,
khil raha hai dheere dheere, haule haule,
chura ke khud se aankhein main har pal jiya,

zeher jo usne ghola maine woh piya,
chupi ke aad main chipkar usne julm kiya,

zubaan par laga woh tala khul raha hai dheere dheere, haule haule,

meri nahi koi khata yeh pata chala hai dheere dheere, haule haule

Tuesday, May 8, 2012

SJ1: O Ri Chiraiya



O Ri Chiraiya, Nanhi si chidiya
Angana mein phir aaja re


O Ri Chiraiya, Nanhi si chidiya
Angana mein phir aaja re


Andhiyara.. hai ghana
Aur lahu se sana


Kirno ke tinke, ambar se chun ke
Angana mein phir aaja re


Humne tujhpe hazaaro sitam hai kiye
Humne tujhpe jahaa bhar ke zulm kiye
Humne socha nahi, Tu jo udd jaayegi
Ye zameen tere bin sooni reh jaayegi
Kiske dum pe sajega mera angana


O Ri Chiraiya, Meri chiraiya
Angana mein phir aaja re


Tere pankho mein saare sitare jadu
Teri chunar thanak sat rangi bunu
Tere kaajal mein main, kaali raina bharu
Teri mehendi mein main, kachi dhoop malu
Tere naino sajaa doon naya sapna


O Ri Chiraiya, Meri Chiraiya
Angana mein phir aaja re


O Ri Chiraiya
Nanhi si chidiya
Angana mein phir aaja re


O Ri Chiraiya

Wednesday, May 2, 2012

Lead, Succeed and Win !

Courage is not the absence of fear, but the triumph over it. Cast off your chains. Lead.Nelson Mandela.

The old model of leadership is dead now. It has failed. The idea of CEO and the top level management pushing the stuffs to masses below them in the organization chain has failed. Now, it is time that each one of the organization be the CEO of his/her own job. Leadership is not about position or title; it is about impact, influence and commitment to be brilliant at what we do. Each one of us not only has the opportunity to lead in all that we do, but also has the RESPONSIBILITY to lead. Lead without a title. Lead where we are planted. Lead at our absolute best. We can shift from victimhood into leadership. We need to build leaders at all levels of the organization. And when we make the change, it will change the whole game.

You need No Title to show Leadership:
We all have one sustainable power regardless of our position, our network and our title – that is the power we have today by being human, power to be inspirational, power to lead by examples, power to work at excellence regardless of our work and to leave people, the things, opportunities better than we found them.

Turbulent times build Great Leaders:
The more we go to our limits, the wider our limits will expand. So, turbulent times for most people, for victims are tragic and scary – they get frightened, they do not innovate, they do not stand up at excellence, they do not give their absolute best, they do not drive change. But, we all know, if we do not change and do not adapt to the turbulent times, then we and our organization will become dinosaurs. The best move we can make at this time is to understand that “Turbulent times build better leaders” and the more we can go to the edge, the more we can confine to the resistances, the more we can embrace the deep change that might be making us frightened or uncomfortable, the more we can lead without a title and the more we can win.

Breakdown must happen before breakthroughs can occur. Disruption precedes integration. So old building must be cleared out to make space for new and better. All the old ways of thinking, delivering value must fall apart and be cleared out so that new and better organization can be built; our team can even become better and we can create more innovative and extra products and services that will help us win.

Leadership is not only applicable to our career; it is also applicable to our lives. Because every part of our life is connected – it is not possible to do good in one area and at the same time not good in any other area. If we do not live our potential, we do not express our absolute leadership best, then that potential will eventually over time turn to pain and we will be discouraged and we will give up - “Potential unexpressed turns to pain.”  What victims see as problems, leaders see as solutions. So let us look for opportunities that others are seeing as problems – so that we can build better team, better culture, better organization, better business and most importantly, better “us”.

The stronger your Relationships, the better your Leadership:
Business is about relationships, it is about people, it is about being helpful, and it is to deliver genius level of value to as many people as possible. And as a result we get fanatic following people who will never consider doing business with anyone else. It is about being acutely helpful to many people as possible. Harry S. Truman said, “It is amazing what you can accomplish if you do not care who gets the credit.” The more we can leave our ego at the front door when we walk at the work place and simply focus on seeing the best in other people, focus on being passionate, focus on being excellent, focus on doing genius level of work, the more our energy be invested in great work that will give what we need. Technology is servant, and business is about relationships. So we should build relationships, create engagement culture, create leadership culture, see best of people, celebrate people, leave people better than we found them and have fun at work J.

To be a great leader, first become a great person:
Happy people are happy leaders; energized people are energized leaders. People who have self-respect respect other people. So if you take time to work on yourself and awaken that inner leader within you so that you can pour out your potential, everything in the world will change. We often forget that and we think if we work on our outer world, our inner world will be taken care of. We need to know how very important our thinking is. Our thinking creates our reality. We are bound to get more of what we focus on. Our thoughts drive our action. What holds us back in leadership and in life are not the external realities but the way we then behave in the face of those conditions. Real leadership involves breaking through the limits of our mind so that we can step into the highest strengths of our spirit. And for that we need to 1. See clearly – perceive your conditions and circumstances clearly, 2. Take care of our health – Exercise and good diet, 3. Get inspired, 4. Take care of family, and 5. Elevate our lifestyle.

Jaane Yeh Kya Ho Gaya

One beautiful song from the movie "Armaan" sung by Shankar Mahadevan and Alga Yagnik. Nice lyrics by Javed Akhtar...

Jaane Yeh Kya Ho Gaya
Dil To Jaise Kho Gaya
Jage Jage So Gaya Dekho Na
Lage Kyon Mujhe Yeh Sama Naya
Yeh Zameen Nayi Aasmaan Naya
Duniya Hi Nayi Lagti Hai
Ho Ho Ho Ho Ho Ho Ha Ha Ha
Jaane Yeh Kya Ho Gaya
Dil To Jaise Kho Gaya
Jage Jage So Gaya Dekhona
Lage Kyon Mujhe Yeh Sama Naya
Yeh Zameen Nayi Aasmaan Naya
Duniya Hi Nayi Lagti Hai

Yeh Saare Phool Koi Baat Mujhse Kehte Hai
Kyon Mujhe Yun Lage
Taare Tumhare Aanchal Mein Chupke Rehte Hai
Kyon Mujhe Yun Lage
Chaayi Hai Kaisi Mere Dil Pe Deewangee
Ho Dekho Na Dekho Na Dekho Na
Jaane Kaisa Alam Hai
Pighlasa Mausam Hai
Ang Ang Resham Hai Dekho Na
Ho Lage Kyon Mujhe Yeh Sama Naya
Yeh Zameen Nayi Aasmaan Naya
Duniya Hi Nayi Lagti Hai

Khushboo Hai Roshni Mein Hai Rang Hawaon Mein
Kyon Mujhe Yun Lage
Gaate Hai Kaliyan Geeton Ke Hai Fizao Mein
Kyon Mujhe Yun Lage
Raahon Mein Hai Khwaabon Ki Kaisi Yeh Chandni
Ho Dekho Na Dekho Na Dekho Na
Jane Hum Hai Kahan
Mili Hume Hai Yahan Sapno Ki Vaadiyan
Dekho Na
Ho Lage Kyon Mujhe Yeh Sama Naya
Yeh Zameen Nayi Aasma Naya
Duniya Hi Nayi Lagti Hai
Jaane Yeh Kya Ho Gaya
Dil To Jaise Kho Gaya
Jage Jage So Gaya Dekho Na

Tuesday, May 1, 2012

Space, Silence & Solitude

A nice article I found on 3 S's: Space, Silence and Solitude.
http://www.problogger.net/archives/2011/10/05/space-%E2%80%A6-silence-solitude-%E2%80%A6-what-i-need-more-of-as-a-blogger/

At 3 different places, I found the third S differently : Here are they:
1. Silence, Solitude and Space
2. Silence, Solitude and Stillness
3. Silence, Solitude and Simplicity