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Chennai, TN, India
I am a Software Engineer since Aug 2004. Master of own space, Fun loving but within a limit, hate pulling other's leg, twinkling brain thinking of surroundings, blend of culture and sanskar, priest of music, always ready with a helping hand and a smiling face, Mr Attitude for people who deserve it, but a true and great friend for my friends ...

Monday, August 30, 2010

Happiness !!!

  1. 1. Your life has Purpose and Meaning

    2. Use a strategy for Happiness

    3. You don't have to win every time

    4. Your goals should be aligned with one another

    5. Choose your comparisons wisely

    6. Cultivate Friendships

    7. Turn off the TV

    8. Accept yourself - Unconditionally

    9. Remember where you came from

    10. Limit yourself to thinking about one subject as you lie down to sleep

    11. Friendship beats money

    12. Have realistic expectations

    13. Be open to new ideas

    14. Share with others how important they are to you

    15. If you are not sure, guess positively

    16. Believe in yourself

    17. Don't believe in yourself too much

    18. Don't face your problems alone

    19. Age is not to be feared

    20. Develop a household routine

    21. Don't be overprotective

    22. Pay attention. You may have what you want

    23. Don't let your Religious beliefs fade

    24. Do what you sat you are going to do

    25. Don't be aggressive with your friends and family

    26. Root for the home team

    27. Don't confuse stuff with success

    28. Every relationship is different

    29. Don't think "What If"

    30. Volunteer

    31. If you can’t reach your goals, your goals will hurt you

    32. Exercise

    33. Little things have big meanings

    34. It's not what happened, it's how you think about what happened

    35. Develop some common interests with loved ones

    36. Laugh

    37. Don't let your entire life hinge on one element

    38. Share of yourself

    39. Busy is better than bored

    40. Satisfaction is relative

    41. Learn to use a computer

    42. Try to think less about the people and things that bother you

    43. Keep your family close

    44. Eat some fruit every day

    45. Enjoy what you have

    46. Think in concrete terms

    47. Be socially supportive

    48. Don't blame yourself

    49. Be a peacemaker

    50. Cherish animals

    51. Make your work a calling

    52. Never trade your morals for your goals

    53. Don't pretend to ignore things your loved ones do that bother you

    54. Get a good night's sleep

    55. Buy what you like

    56. Accomplish something every day

    57. Be flexible

    58. Events are temporary

    59. Be your own fan

    60. Join a group

    61. Be positive

    62. There will be an end, but you can be prepared

    63. How we see the world is more important than how the world is

    64. Keep a pen and paper handy

    65. Help the next person who needs some minor assistance

    66. Take care not to harshly criticize family and friends

    67. Some people are like the big picture, and others like the details

    68. Do things you are good at

    69. Go visit your neighbor

    70. Smile

    71. Don't accept television's picture of the world

    72. You always have a choice

    73. Be agreeable

    74. Don't ignore one part of your life

    75. Listen to music

    76. Let your goals guide you

    77. Use your job positively

    78. Don't forget to have fun

    79. Believe in ultimate justice

    80. Reminisce

    81. Be conscientious

    82. Don't dwell on unwinnable conflicts

    83. Enjoy the ordinary

    84. Focus not on the world's tragedies, but on the world's hope

    85. Get a hobby

    86. Envying other people's relationships is pointless

    87. Give yourself time to adapt to change

    88. Focus on what really matters to you

    89. Realize that complete satisfaction does not exist

    90. Surround yourself with pleasant aromas

    91. Don't let others set your goals

    92. You are a person, not a stereotype

    93. Know what makes you happy and sad

    94. Keep reading

    95. We must feel needed

    96. Say "So What"

    97. Have a purpose

    98. You have not finished the best part of your life

    99. Money does not buy happiness