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Chennai, TN, India
I am a Software Engineer since Aug 2004. Master of own space, Fun loving but within a limit, hate pulling other's leg, twinkling brain thinking of surroundings, blend of culture and sanskar, priest of music, always ready with a helping hand and a smiling face, Mr Attitude for people who deserve it, but a true and great friend for my friends ...

Friday, August 3, 2012

SJ13: Nikal Pado Re...



Nikal Pado re Bandhu Nikal Pado re
Nikal Pado re raahi ... Nikal Pado re
Arey Na mumkin bhi Mumkin Hove
Karke dekho re
Bandhu Nikal Pado re Bandhu Nikal Pado re
Nikal Pado re raahi ... Nikal Pado re

Arey Naam daam aur shaan pe
Uska nahin dhyaan ,
Laaga jisko laaga prem
Jaaga jismein jaaga prem

Arey koi dekhe na dekhe woh
Karta jaaye kaam
Laaga jisko laaga prem
Jaaga jismein jaaga prem

Arey Dar dar jaave Prem Jagaave ,
Dar dar jaave Prem Jagaave
Jisko laaga prem
Laaga jisko laaga prem
Jaaga jismein jaaga prem .

Dar dar jaave Prem Jagaave
Tum bhi jaago re Bandhu Nikal Pado re
Bandhu Nikal Pado re
Nikal Pado re raahi ... Nikal Pado re

Arey jise bhi kisi tadap ne
Kisi lagan ne
Chhua jab bhi chhua re
Hua yehi hua re

Arey Badli uski najariya
Badli dagariya
Woh toh nikal pada re
Ghar se nikal pada re

Dar dar jaave Haak lagave,
Nikal pada re
Woh to nikal pada re
Ghar se nikal pada re

Dar dar jaave Haak lagave
Tum bhi suno re Bandhu Nikal Pado re Bandhu Nikal Pado re
Nikal Pado re raahi ... Nikal Pado re

Arey Na mumkin bhi Mumkin Hove
Karke dekho re Bandhu Nikal Pado re Bandhu Nikal Pado re
Nikal Pado re raahi ... Nikal Pado re

Arey Na mumkin bhi Mumkin Hove
Karke dekho re Bandhu Nikal Pado re Bandhu Nikal Pado re
Nikal Pado re Bandhu Nikal Pado re
Nikal Pado re raahi ... Nikal Pado re.....

Sunday, July 22, 2012

SJ12: Jal naa jaaye jal


Jal naa jaaye jal, Jal naa jaaye jal
Jal naa jaaye jal, Jal naa jaaye jal

Dharaa naa kal ho maaruthal
Sambhal jaa re ab paagal paagal

Jal naa jaaye jal, Jal naa jaaye jal
Jal naa jaaye jal, Jal naa jaaye jal

Saagar saagar pehra de
Gaagar gaagar pehra de
Boond boond par pehra de
Baadal baadal pehra de

Nadi hai pyaasi
Ghada hai pyaasa
Nadi hai pyaasi
Ghada hai pyaasa
Marr na jaaye kal arey paagal

Jal naa jaaye jal, Jal naa jaaye jal
Jal naa jaaye jal, Jal naa jaaye jal

Saanson ka aur boondon ka
Donon ka bal ek saa
Donon jeevan baant tein
Donon ka phal ek saa

Boondon ko bhi
Saanson jaisi
Boondon ko bhi
Saanson jaisi
Maan ke chal, arey samajh le paagal

Jal naa jaaye jal, Jal naa jaaye jal
Jal naa jaaye jal, Jal naa jaaye jal

Tuesday, July 17, 2012

SJ11: Bahut yaad aate ho tum


Bahut yaad aate ho tum
Bahut yaad aate ho tum
Har roz dil ki koi
rug chhed jaate ho tum
Bahut yaad aate ho tum

Kaise badhe faasle
Mujhko pata na chala
Karna mujhe maaf main
jaane kahaan pe tha gum
Bahut yaad aate ho tum

Tum jo nahi paas mein
Ghar mein hoon vanvaas mein
Tum ko bulata hai ghar
Keh do ke aate ho tum
Bahut yaad aate ho tum

Dabe paanv aake mujhe
jagati hai yaade teri
Bachpan ki baatein sabhi
phir se sunaate ho tum
Bahut yaad aate ho tum

Nanhe se ik phool ne
Mere ghar janam jab liya
Ehsaas tab ye hua
Mere liye kya ho tum
Bahut yaad aate ho tum

Kaise gaya bhool main
Kudrat ka hai ye neeyam
Pahuchunga main bhi wahaan
Ho jis jagah aaj tum
Bahut yaad aate ho tum...

Har roz dil ki koi
rug chhed jaate ho tum
Bahut yaad aate ho tum

Thursday, July 12, 2012

How to Deal with Anxiety ?

Living is stressful, when you have to run from pillar to post to make ends meet, save up for a secure future and fulfil family responsibilities. And with stress comes anxiety, which ends up ruining your physical and mental health. The following steps will help you deal with anxiety and, with time, prevent it from getting worse.

1. Proper Diet: In the hustle-bustle of life, a proper sit-down meal is often neglected. When it comes to sound mental and psychological health, having the right kind of food will help keep mental anguishes at bay. A diet rich in magnesium and potassium is proven to stabilise hormonal levels and normalise anxiety. You must avoid caffeine and nicotine since they trigger anxiety rushes in the body.

2. Sleep Well: Your sleeping pattern suffers when you pay more attention to your professional life than your personal one. This, in turn, fails to provide the brain with adequate amounts of rest and thus causes stress. You should try and get at least 6 hours of sleep every day. Have dinner 3 hours before your assigned time to go to bed, and skip watching television before going to bed. Sleeping in a dark bedroom with no distractions will help you fall asleep easily. Sleeping well will let the mind and body heal and you can hope to enjoy better health.

3. Talk to People: Often talking about your feelings helps more than any other method. Seek a sympathetic listener and talk to them about your problems. Seek advice on how to overcome them. Having someone to listen to you will automatically release your pent-up anxiety. You will feel much lighter and refreshed afterwards.

4. Exercise: Proper exercise often helps reduce stress levels. Since exercise improves blood circulation to the brain, you tend to feel less anxious at the end of the day. If, however, you do not feel like working out, you can choose to meditate as well. Meditation helps in calming your mind and refocusing attention to your outlook toward life. Practicing yoga also aids in mental health and does away with anxious thoughts.

5. Pamper Yourself: Often splurging on an expensive buy, or gorging on your favourite food help in reducing anxiety instantly. Go to a spa and let a good hot-oil massage invigorate you. Visit the mall and buy that jacket you have been coveting. Filling up the mind with positive and happy thoughts will reduce anxiety and keep you feeling normal all day.

6. Think Positive: Having low self-esteem is often the reason behind stress and anxiety. Negative thoughts trigger depression. Thinking positively, on the other hand, keeps one hopeful and expectant. Anxiety mostly arises from the dread of not meeting up to certain expectations. Getting rid of the dread and feeling confident will do wonders. This will help in keeping the negative thoughts away and lower your anxiety levels.

Anxiety is a product of pent-up stress and depression. Being unable to find an outlet for release can make this problem worse. However, by following these steps you can find ways to cope with it successfully. If these measures fail to help, seek the aid of a professional immediately.

Monday, July 9, 2012

SJ10. Kabir Vani

Sab janme ek beej se
Sabki mitti ek

Mann mein duvidha padh gayi
Ho gaye roop anek
Ho gaye roop anek

Jo tu sachcha baaniya
Sab se ek saa bol
Oonch-neech ko chhod de
Ek baraabar tol
Ek baraabar tol

Unche kul ke kaaran tu
Duniya bhool raha
Jab tan mitti ho jaayega
Tab kul ka hoga kya
Tab kul ka hoga kya

Kehet Kabir na garv kar
Naa kisi ki hansi udaa
Abhi teri bhi naiyya samudr mein
Jaane kya ho jaaye
Jaane kya ho jaaye!

Monday, July 2, 2012

SJ9. Ae Zindagi Tu Hi Bata


Ae zindagi tu hi bata
Khoya hai jo
Paoon kahan
Har bhool ko maafi mile
Roothe palon ko main lau mana

Naa jaane kitni
Hasthi aakhon ke
Saare sapne cheen liye maine
Saaye hain cheene kitne saron se
Aur kitne ghar phoonk diye maine

Naa jaane kitne rishtho ki
Dor main kaat ke aaya hoon
Itni baate bhoolu main kaise
Kaise main khud ko apnaoon

Ae zindagi tu hi bata
Khoya hai jo
Paoon kahaa
Har bhool ko maafi mile
Roothe palon ko main lau mana

Hey hey…
Hoo..

Aankhein thi khuli
Maloom tha sab
Sab kuch hote dekh raha tha main
Phir bhi na kuch bhi rokha maine
Jaane kis lehar baha tha main
Kaash yeh sab ek khwab hi ho
Aankh khule toh sab theek mile
Bhoj yeh mann ke jaaein utar
Dil yeh mera phir se khile.. heyy..

Ae zindagi tu hi bataa

Ho ho.. ho hoo..

Monday, June 25, 2012

SJ8. Mitti Bole ...


Haule Haule dheeme dheeme
Mitti bole, maati bole
Haule Haule dheeme dheeme
Mitti bole, maati bole...

Geet boney thhe tumhe
Geet boney thhe tumhe
Bo diye kyun laal sholay
Haule-Haule dheeme dheeme
Mitti bole, maati bole

Ghar ke aangan mein kahaan se
Yeh lapat si aa gayi
Khidkiyon ki thi woh raunak
Dhoop abb kahaan gayi
Ho.. Kyon hawa hai roothi roothi
Kyon hawa hai roothi roothi
Shaakh gumsum kyun na dole
Haule Haule dheeme dheeme
Mitti bole, maati bole

Garam hai maatha saagar ka
Tabiyat dheeli dheeli
Dekho chalakti aasmaan ki aankh neeli neeli
Kisne paani ko jalaya
Kisne paani ko jalaya
Kaun vish jheelo mein ghole
Haule Haule dheeme dheeme
Mitti bole, mati bole

Geet boney thhe tumhe
Geet boney thhe tumhe
Bo diye kyun laal sholay
Haule-Haule dheeme dheeme
Mitti bole, mati bole

Monday, June 18, 2012

SJ7. Sakhi


Aansun ke sang naa bahungi sakhi
Ab naa mein gumsum rahungi sakhi
Sehne se behtar kahungi sakhi

Tann ke ghaav pe marham haya ka
Mann kaa ghaav hai pyaasaa dava ka
Tann ke ghaav pe marham hayaa kaa
Mann kaa ghaav hai pyaasaa davaa kaa

Sitam ke andheron mein sadiyon hai bilkhi
Maasoom bholi wo pyari khushi

Ghut ghut ke kab tak jiyungi sakhi
Gum sum main ab naa rahungi sakhi
Sehne se behtar kahungi sakhi
Aansun ke sang naa bahungi sakhi
Ab naa mai gumsum rahungi sakhi

Waar ye pyaar kaa kaisaa silaa hai
Seh jo gaye - barambaar milaa hai
Waar ye pyaar kaa kaisaa silaa hai
Seh jo gaye - barambaar milaa hai

Zulmi Naqaabon ke peechhe chhupaa hai
Kaayar saa chehera dil se dukhi...

Zulm naa ab mein sahungi sakhi
Gumsum na ab mein rahungi sakhi
Sehne se behtar kahungi sakhi

Aansun ke sang naa bahungi sakhi
Ab naa mein gumsum rahungi sakhi

Monday, June 11, 2012

SJ6. Aye Duniya


Aise Naa Dekh, Aise Naa Jhaank
 Aise Naa Dekh, Aise Naa Jhaank
 Aye Duniya
 Aye Duniya..

Dil Me Bharaa Hai
 Apne Romance
 Dil Me Bharaa Hai, Apne Romance
 Karte Hain Roz Chandaa Pe Dance
 Aye Duniya
 Aye Duniya..

Khud Se Hai Pyar Hame Beshumaar
 Khud Pe Nisaar Hum Toh..
 Hai Zindagi Pe Hame Eitbaar
 Hain Iske Yaar Hum To

Ho..o..
 Khud Se Hai Pyar Hame Beshumaar
 Khud Pe Nisaar Hum Toh..
 Hai Zindagi Pe Hame Eitbaar
 Hain Iske Yaar Hum Toh

Itna Na Dekh..
 Itna Na Jhaank..
 Itna Na Dekh Itna Na Jhaank
 Badal Ke Paar Hai Apni Aankh
 Aye Duniya
 Aye Duniya.. haan

Dil Ki Dukan Mein Jo Saman
 Hai Lajwab Hai Ji
 Dil Ko Sajaana Bilkul Asaan
 Seedha Hisab Hai Ji

Dil Ki Dukan Me Jo Saman
 Hai Lajwab Hai Ji
 Dil Ko Sajaana Bilkul Asaan
 Seedha Hisab Hai Ji

Chookein Nahin
 Jab Mile Chance
 Chookein Nahin, Jab Mile Chance
 Karte Hain Roz Chandaa Pe Dance
 Aye Duniya
 Aye Duniya..

Monday, June 4, 2012

SJ5. Ghar Yaad Aata Hai Mujhe


Woh garmiyon ki raat, Woh jaade ki baat
 Woh paani ka matka, rasoi ki aag

Sab satata hai mujhe
 Ghar yaad aata hai mujhe…

Sathi ik sath ho, itni si baat hai
 Woh ped woh aangan dikhana hai usey
 Kehta hai roz mann mujhe
 Ghar yaad aata hai mujhe…

Jin dilon mein raha mein barso tak
 Ek hissa unme mera bhi tha
 Phir wahin rehna hai mujhe
 Ghar yaad aata hai mujhe…

Sehmi chokhat pe khade
 Mera man yeh kahe
 Pyar karna sikha tha tum se
 Pyar tumse phir paana hai
 Kitni doge sazaa, ab toh de do duaa
 Intezar ab hai mujhe
 Ghar yaad aata hai mujhe…

Monday, May 28, 2012

SJ4. Naav hai zindagi ...


Ek masoom si naav hai zindagi zindagi
Toofaan mein doob rahi zindagi zindagi
Maajhi ki aankhon mein jhaank kar
Kinara dhoondh rahi hai zindagi zindagi
Zindagi Zindagi

Baadalon ka shor bahut
Tez hawa chal rahi hai
Tez hawa chal rahi hai
Ek lau maajhi ke haath mein
Ek lau maajhi ke haath mein
Aankh moond hai jaagi hui
Aankh moond hai jaagi hui

Ek masoom si naav hai zindagi zindagi
Toofaan mein doob rahi zindagi zindagi

Ho maajhi tum sath nibhana
Ek ek kadam badhana
Ek ek kadam badhana
Main chhod doon aas agar
O Maajhi
Main chhod doon aas agar
Tum naa chhodna saath kabhi
Tum naa chhodna saath kabhi

Ek masoom si naav hai zindagi zindagi
Toofaan mein doob rahi zindagi zindagi
Maajhi ki aankhon mein jhaank kar
Kinara dhoondh rahi hai zindagi zindagi
Zindagi Zindagi.

Monday, May 14, 2012

SJ2: Dheere Dheere, Haule Haule

Bikhre toote tukde,
saare jud rahe hai dheere dheere, haule haule,

betuke se sur woh,
saare mil rahe hai dheere dheere, haule haule,

aayiney ka dhundhla chehara,
khil raha hai dheere dheere, haule haule,

nanhi si ek jaan ne apna bachpan khoya,
ho phir ki mayli chadar odhke soya,
bebas aklea bezubaan, chupchap roya,

barso se yeh behte,
aasun tham rahe hai dheere dheere, haule haule,

khul rahi aankhein jo,
ab tak nam rahi hai dheere dheere, haule haule,

aayiney ka dhundhla chehara,
khil raha hai dheere dheere, haule haule,
chura ke khud se aankhein main har pal jiya,

zeher jo usne ghola maine woh piya,
chupi ke aad main chipkar usne julm kiya,

zubaan par laga woh tala khul raha hai dheere dheere, haule haule,

meri nahi koi khata yeh pata chala hai dheere dheere, haule haule

Tuesday, May 8, 2012

SJ1: O Ri Chiraiya



O Ri Chiraiya, Nanhi si chidiya
Angana mein phir aaja re


O Ri Chiraiya, Nanhi si chidiya
Angana mein phir aaja re


Andhiyara.. hai ghana
Aur lahu se sana


Kirno ke tinke, ambar se chun ke
Angana mein phir aaja re


Humne tujhpe hazaaro sitam hai kiye
Humne tujhpe jahaa bhar ke zulm kiye
Humne socha nahi, Tu jo udd jaayegi
Ye zameen tere bin sooni reh jaayegi
Kiske dum pe sajega mera angana


O Ri Chiraiya, Meri chiraiya
Angana mein phir aaja re


Tere pankho mein saare sitare jadu
Teri chunar thanak sat rangi bunu
Tere kaajal mein main, kaali raina bharu
Teri mehendi mein main, kachi dhoop malu
Tere naino sajaa doon naya sapna


O Ri Chiraiya, Meri Chiraiya
Angana mein phir aaja re


O Ri Chiraiya
Nanhi si chidiya
Angana mein phir aaja re


O Ri Chiraiya

Wednesday, May 2, 2012

Lead, Succeed and Win !

Courage is not the absence of fear, but the triumph over it. Cast off your chains. Lead.Nelson Mandela.

The old model of leadership is dead now. It has failed. The idea of CEO and the top level management pushing the stuffs to masses below them in the organization chain has failed. Now, it is time that each one of the organization be the CEO of his/her own job. Leadership is not about position or title; it is about impact, influence and commitment to be brilliant at what we do. Each one of us not only has the opportunity to lead in all that we do, but also has the RESPONSIBILITY to lead. Lead without a title. Lead where we are planted. Lead at our absolute best. We can shift from victimhood into leadership. We need to build leaders at all levels of the organization. And when we make the change, it will change the whole game.

You need No Title to show Leadership:
We all have one sustainable power regardless of our position, our network and our title – that is the power we have today by being human, power to be inspirational, power to lead by examples, power to work at excellence regardless of our work and to leave people, the things, opportunities better than we found them.

Turbulent times build Great Leaders:
The more we go to our limits, the wider our limits will expand. So, turbulent times for most people, for victims are tragic and scary – they get frightened, they do not innovate, they do not stand up at excellence, they do not give their absolute best, they do not drive change. But, we all know, if we do not change and do not adapt to the turbulent times, then we and our organization will become dinosaurs. The best move we can make at this time is to understand that “Turbulent times build better leaders” and the more we can go to the edge, the more we can confine to the resistances, the more we can embrace the deep change that might be making us frightened or uncomfortable, the more we can lead without a title and the more we can win.

Breakdown must happen before breakthroughs can occur. Disruption precedes integration. So old building must be cleared out to make space for new and better. All the old ways of thinking, delivering value must fall apart and be cleared out so that new and better organization can be built; our team can even become better and we can create more innovative and extra products and services that will help us win.

Leadership is not only applicable to our career; it is also applicable to our lives. Because every part of our life is connected – it is not possible to do good in one area and at the same time not good in any other area. If we do not live our potential, we do not express our absolute leadership best, then that potential will eventually over time turn to pain and we will be discouraged and we will give up - “Potential unexpressed turns to pain.”  What victims see as problems, leaders see as solutions. So let us look for opportunities that others are seeing as problems – so that we can build better team, better culture, better organization, better business and most importantly, better “us”.

The stronger your Relationships, the better your Leadership:
Business is about relationships, it is about people, it is about being helpful, and it is to deliver genius level of value to as many people as possible. And as a result we get fanatic following people who will never consider doing business with anyone else. It is about being acutely helpful to many people as possible. Harry S. Truman said, “It is amazing what you can accomplish if you do not care who gets the credit.” The more we can leave our ego at the front door when we walk at the work place and simply focus on seeing the best in other people, focus on being passionate, focus on being excellent, focus on doing genius level of work, the more our energy be invested in great work that will give what we need. Technology is servant, and business is about relationships. So we should build relationships, create engagement culture, create leadership culture, see best of people, celebrate people, leave people better than we found them and have fun at work J.

To be a great leader, first become a great person:
Happy people are happy leaders; energized people are energized leaders. People who have self-respect respect other people. So if you take time to work on yourself and awaken that inner leader within you so that you can pour out your potential, everything in the world will change. We often forget that and we think if we work on our outer world, our inner world will be taken care of. We need to know how very important our thinking is. Our thinking creates our reality. We are bound to get more of what we focus on. Our thoughts drive our action. What holds us back in leadership and in life are not the external realities but the way we then behave in the face of those conditions. Real leadership involves breaking through the limits of our mind so that we can step into the highest strengths of our spirit. And for that we need to 1. See clearly – perceive your conditions and circumstances clearly, 2. Take care of our health – Exercise and good diet, 3. Get inspired, 4. Take care of family, and 5. Elevate our lifestyle.

Jaane Yeh Kya Ho Gaya

One beautiful song from the movie "Armaan" sung by Shankar Mahadevan and Alga Yagnik. Nice lyrics by Javed Akhtar...

Jaane Yeh Kya Ho Gaya
Dil To Jaise Kho Gaya
Jage Jage So Gaya Dekho Na
Lage Kyon Mujhe Yeh Sama Naya
Yeh Zameen Nayi Aasmaan Naya
Duniya Hi Nayi Lagti Hai
Ho Ho Ho Ho Ho Ho Ha Ha Ha
Jaane Yeh Kya Ho Gaya
Dil To Jaise Kho Gaya
Jage Jage So Gaya Dekhona
Lage Kyon Mujhe Yeh Sama Naya
Yeh Zameen Nayi Aasmaan Naya
Duniya Hi Nayi Lagti Hai

Yeh Saare Phool Koi Baat Mujhse Kehte Hai
Kyon Mujhe Yun Lage
Taare Tumhare Aanchal Mein Chupke Rehte Hai
Kyon Mujhe Yun Lage
Chaayi Hai Kaisi Mere Dil Pe Deewangee
Ho Dekho Na Dekho Na Dekho Na
Jaane Kaisa Alam Hai
Pighlasa Mausam Hai
Ang Ang Resham Hai Dekho Na
Ho Lage Kyon Mujhe Yeh Sama Naya
Yeh Zameen Nayi Aasmaan Naya
Duniya Hi Nayi Lagti Hai

Khushboo Hai Roshni Mein Hai Rang Hawaon Mein
Kyon Mujhe Yun Lage
Gaate Hai Kaliyan Geeton Ke Hai Fizao Mein
Kyon Mujhe Yun Lage
Raahon Mein Hai Khwaabon Ki Kaisi Yeh Chandni
Ho Dekho Na Dekho Na Dekho Na
Jane Hum Hai Kahan
Mili Hume Hai Yahan Sapno Ki Vaadiyan
Dekho Na
Ho Lage Kyon Mujhe Yeh Sama Naya
Yeh Zameen Nayi Aasma Naya
Duniya Hi Nayi Lagti Hai
Jaane Yeh Kya Ho Gaya
Dil To Jaise Kho Gaya
Jage Jage So Gaya Dekho Na

Tuesday, May 1, 2012

Space, Silence & Solitude

A nice article I found on 3 S's: Space, Silence and Solitude.
http://www.problogger.net/archives/2011/10/05/space-%E2%80%A6-silence-solitude-%E2%80%A6-what-i-need-more-of-as-a-blogger/

At 3 different places, I found the third S differently : Here are they:
1. Silence, Solitude and Space
2. Silence, Solitude and Stillness
3. Silence, Solitude and Simplicity

Tuesday, January 31, 2012