The more one can fake one’s feelings, the more mature one is said to be – The lesson that I learned from life hard way. When I look back in my life, through several incidences I have felt the same. While I did things as I should have, respecting the whole society and surroundings to the extreme extent that I could, I had to fake my own feelings a lot many times. Sometimes, it was sheer unwillingness to trap others in my sad story and sometimes, it was the secrecy in social bonding that I did not want to reveal. As life progressed, unfolding such surprises one after other, the more ‘mature’ I became. ‘Mature’, in the sense that, I became more used-to to such situations, most of the times, solving myself and not disclosing to others… Many times, in moments of panic, frustration, I felt like running from the current things, but somehow, again managed to control myself and flew in the current moment. I think such is life; it goes the way you want others to see it.
The law of attraction says, “Like attracts like”. That means, if you are thinking something good, universe will force good things come to you and if you are thinking of bad, you will manifest the same.
When this is told openly, lot of questions come around “self”. It is ME that thinks some good for me and then if somebody else thinks just the opposite, which one the universe is going to support for. Conflicts come around any common goal or common thing. You want some thing to be in one way whereas your friend or relative wants the same in another way. Conflict and more of conflict. YOU or ME; YOURS or MINE is the always conflicting part that all of us face in day to day life.
“Ask, believe and receive” is the principle. Well said, but then who gets that if two people asks and believes too!?
The truth is that the entire reality is your creation. You think something to happen in someway and the universe supports you there. If you think of conflict, yes, you will get more of conflict, as the universe thinks you are longing for the conflict; somewhere in your consciousness you have registered yourself for the conflict and according to the law of attraction, you will get more of conflict.
So feel good about your creation, feel grateful for the world… Create the reality that you really want by thinking that, by making decisions and holding intentions. Think what you desire, not what you don’t want to have or don’t want to get. Focus on what you want, rather what others may want or things that you don’t want.
Everything is manifestation of your consciousness. You see others as you want them to be, not as they really are. You see yourself as you want yourself to be. So change your mindset, change your thinking. Think “good” and get “good”. Let the “Law of attraction” play for US, not only for YOU or only for ME.
Well, “Am I writing a book”, rather, “Am I really going to write a book” is a question to myself. For the readers, assume that this post is telling, “I am going to write a book!”… And to my friends, when I threw this idea, comments flew from different directions with different thoughts and here they go:
Aditya:
Yeh sab chakkar mein mat raho… (Don’t be in this fantasy…). Yeh pyar, mohabbat mein mat pado, jaldi se ek ladki dekho and shaadi karlo (Don’t be in this love, find a girl soon and get married!)
Anil:
“Abbey pehle to kitab ka naam sochle… Waise tu kya likhega? Sab sach likhna hai, agar tum tumhare baare mein likh rahe ho!” (First think of the name of the book. By the way, what are you going to write there? Write all truth if you are going to write about yourself!)
Deepa:
I know you can do it. I want to see your name as author of some book. And please do not write your nickname as the author name, I won’t be able to guess whether that is you… Well, what are you going to write the book about?
"Love, Friendship and Leadership" I said.
“Leadership?, Interesting.. I know you can do it, but your book will not be as famous as Chetan Bhagat’s as you are not romantic and I think, you cannot write lots of romantic suttfs…" She said
And to that I agreed sarcastically…
Deepika:
Good yaar (Friend), I know tum likh sakte ho, itna accha jo blogging kar lete ho… (You can write it, as you do good blogging)… One thing, once you are through, show me that first, I want to read that first… To that, I said, may be you can be the first editor to that book...
Latha:
Which language will that book be in?
“English, obviously…” “What, are you thinking I am going to write in Tamil?”
“No no”, we have been just talking about Tamil language and you suddenly told that you are going to write a book… (Well, she was unaware that I always run two threads when I talk. And in this case, the threads were running in two different languages, Tamil and English!)
Yes, the language is English and madam, I am just thinking of this… And you need to wait for 1 year to see if this is true…
Prasad:
No comments. (I think he could not digest what I have been telling to him). May be he was thinking, Chinu and book, usko apne office ke kaam se furusat milta hai, jo who kuch karega…(Does he get time from his official work that he will do something else?...)
Surya:
Very good … I think same thinking process was going through his mind as Prasad’s when he said so…
“I too had a love story... A heartbreaking true love tale” is a fiction by yet another young Indian author, Ravinder Singh… I finished the book in just 1 day…
The very first line of this book starts as:
Not everyone in this world has the fate to cherish the fullest form of love. Some are born, just to experience the abbreviation of it.
I am sure, at the end of the book (Rather, at each stage of reading the book), you will feel the same, clearly putting yourself in one of these buckets (One having fate to experience the fullest form and the other having fate just to experience the abbreviation)
